““Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:34–39, ESV)
Do you love God? If so, is the love you have displayed for God caused others to accuse you of being a hater? Why is it that Love for God, the first and greatest commandment, is not a part of this debate concerning same sex marriage? Why do people automatically assume that the Christian (who loves God and wants to obey and glorify Him), hates homosexuals just because he doesn’t want to endorse something that does not please God?
In the passage above, Jesus makes it clear that following Him would not bring peace in our families or with our friends, but that our love for Him would make enemies of those that are closest to us. Why is this? Paul tells us it is because people are “lovers of pleasure, rather than lovers of God.” (2 Timothy 3:4) We, as a culture, have come to a place of loving love, not the God of love. We love companionship and feeling good. As long as I am pleased, we say, I am happy. Therefore, what God says doesn’t really matter. Or, if it does, we change His Word to fit our convictions and our lifestyles, or we simply appeal to His grace by saying, “He will forgive me,” at the expense of His righteous and just nature.
“What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? By no means! How can we who died to sin still live in it? Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.” (Romans 6:1–4, ESV)
What God says does matter. It was God who told Adam and Eve not to eat from the tree in the garden, “For on that day you will surely die.” God warned them, but Satan convinced them that what God says doesn’t matter, and they ate and died spiritually that day. Eventually they would experience the loss of a child at the hand of their eldest son and they would grow old and return to the soil from which they came. However, this was not God’s intent for them. God created a garden for them to dwell in where He walked in their midst. He had given them paradise, but they wanted to find a paradise separate from God’s rules. And this only brought great pain and grief.
The true Christian will seek always to love God first. Trusting His Word and obeying all that He requires of us displays love for God. Two things He requires of the true Christian are to love their neighbor as themselves and to love their enemies, but always in light of the first and greatest commandment.
AND YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH.'
The Greek word used for love here is “agape”, meaning unconditional love. As true Christians we should love all people the way God has loved us, and God loved us enough to tell us what was keeping us from Him.
Therefore, when the true Christian doesn’t accept what God calls sin in your life, know that they do so because they love you and want you to experience the same love that God has shown them – the fullness of which is experienced only through repentance. Repentance means to turn away from the path you have chosen apart from God and turn to Him as the only source of joy and peace. Admit to Him you are a sinner, walking in disobedience to Him, and then commit to follow Him with all your heart, soul, mind and strength.
When a true Christian is bold enough to stand with God, know that they do so in order that you would come to know God as they do. The reason the true Christian will not tolerate sin in your life is because they love you. Tolerance is not love rather it is indifference. It has been said…
“The opposite of love is hate and the worst form of hate is indifference.”
Will you find your life today by losing it? Humility is the way to salvation. We must die to our love of pleasure; to our self-centered life and seek to please God. Will you love God above all else? By so doing, you will have “joy inexpressible and full of glory, the salvation of your souls.” (1 Peter 1:8)
“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less.” C.S. Lewis